You’re looking at what man is doing and has done. Not what God wants. God never told men to deny women basic human rights. Men did that. God loves women. Yes, we have different roles in life but we are equal in value. The Bible tells men to love their wives and even says for them both to submit to each other. Don’t leave out that part.
You are picking and choosing what you what in the religion. Please read the bible and see the difference of how women are treated and then how men are treated