Category: Gender Equality

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Dear anti-transgender people…

I get it, you believe that sex and gender are the same thing. You believe that if you have a penis you’re a man. If you have a vagina you’re a woman. Nothing else. Just your genitals decide if you’re a man or a woman. 

So, for a second I’m going to humor you. I’m going to pretend that there are just two positions and those positions are determined by your genes and what genitals you have. 

I will even go so far as to pretending that all births are xx or xy (which ignores the fact that 1-4 births aren’t). 

Here’s the thing, if the only thing that determines gender is sex that means anything not relating to your penis or vagina has nothing to do with gender. 

That means that styles/looks(so clothes, makeup, body modifications, colors, hair cuts/body hair, etc), body types, jobs, hobbies, essentially EVERYTHING (except maybe urinals and pads/tampons) has nothing to do with gender.

That means when you see a 5′11″ person with a strong build, a beard, wearing a football uniform walks into the woman’s bathroom because she has a vagina you need to not even question it, because none of that has to do with gender(which, according to you, is only based off of whether or not something has a penis or vagina). 

It means that men can wear dresses, skirts, pink and purple, have gorgeous long curly hair, shave their legs, paint their nails and do basically anything that gender roles, rules, and expectations say they shouldn’t. 

Because here’s the thing you can’t claim sex is the only factor in determining someones gender- you cant claim sex and gender are the same thing- until you’re willing to accept that gender isn’t decided by anything BUT sex.

You say someone is less of a man or less of a woman because they don’t act “masculine” or “feminine” and marginalize them, and bully them, and tell them they don’t belong, and scream at them when they walk into a bathroom that matches their sex because they don’t look like that gender, but when they start to identify with the gender that matches them and they try to use the bathroom that fits their gender identity you claim the only thing that decides their gender is sex. 

I’m sorry you can’t have both. So pick one. 

Is gender and sex the same thing? okay then the only thing that belongs to a gender is the genitals. 

Are they different things? Are their roles, rules, and expectations of a gender? Well than it’s time you start accepting the fact that people have the right to identify as the gender that fits them.

Happy pride month to all LGBT+ members! A special shout out to…

Happy pride month to all LGBT+ members! 

A special shout out to those still finding themselves! 

Men and sex.

A man is expected and assumed to love sex at all times

What man doesnt love sex? 

A man doesnt want a girl for anything but sex, right?

A woman raping a man? Any mans dream in a nutshell. 

Every boy only has one thing on his mind.

Your boyfriend doesnt want to have sex with you ? he must be cheating. 

You two arent having sex? Why are you holding out on him? 

You know he just wants to fuck you. 

Why havent you hit that yet? Is she holding out on you? 

How often do you hear about a man choosing to not have sex? How often do you hear about it in a positive way?

Why arent men provided with a chance to say no? Why are they EXPECTED to want sex? Why are we allowing these assumptions to continue? 

Dear men,
You dont have to want sex. You can say no. You can say no for one night, you can wait until your at a certain point in a relationship, you can wait until you’re married, you can have little to no interest at all. You can say no. You can admit and be not ready for sex. If you say no and someone continues, thats rape and they are monsters – Im sorry if you ever experience this. I’m sorry if you currently or ever feel like you need to be sexually ready at all times. I’m sorry that youre not given the chance to not want sex. I’m sorry you arent always given the choice because people expect to know the answer. I’m sorry. 

 Lets speak out, we cant change everyones mind, but we can introduce some new perspective. Lets start a new conversation. 

*note- Opening this conversation does NOT damage or take away from the discussions of woman in sexual situations ~ its simply expanding on the topic*

photogenicsoul:get you a guy that knows what equality is I want…

photogenicsoul:

get you a guy that knows what equality is

I want this shirt. 

Girls dont get less freedom just for having a vagina. 

Boys dont get to have their emotions ignored just for having a penis. 

The only reason rules should change kid by kid is due to maturity levels. 

Gender?

I hate genderization of any kind. 

With the small exception of pronouns(simply because they’re a part of speech) I truly dont care for gender conformity, in fact I’m 100% against it. 

Put bows in your baby boys hair, dress your girls in rocketships and blue baseball shirts/onsies.

Let boys play with makeup and flowers and girls with mud and trucks. 

Let them do the opposite(or the “norm” )without being considered “traditional”. 

Call boys gorgeous and girls handsome. 

There is no right or wrong to being a person as long as you do no harm. 

I dont care what bathroom you use. I dont care what colors you like. I dont care if you wear skirts or pants. 

Beyond innocent curiosity (and sexual relationships) I truly dont care if you have a penis or not- frankly it has nothing to do with your interests. 

If you really think that what someone has in their pants gets to have a say in their hobbies/styles/interest then I truly think you need to reevaluate the way you think.  

P.S. Dont assume someone is trans or gay just because they dont follow gender stereotypes.

feminismandmedia:✨ Gender equality ✨ Yup!!

feminismandmedia:

✨ Gender equality ✨

Yup!!