My apologies LGBT+ community
I formally apologize to everyone in the LGBT+ community as someone who was raised outside of it(but quite close to it) and didnt believe that you actually experienced shit like super invasive questions about your relationships.
Im sorry that these real problems are used as comedic moments on tv and therefore portrayed as fictional.
Like if one more person finds out my boyfriend is trans or realize who Im with and immediately turns around to say “but how does sex work” I might stab them, and Im someone who has no problem talking about my sex life with strangers.
That’s how often this happens, that me, someone with absolutely no boundaries has been made uncomfortable by it.
Its not that Im uncomfortable with answering, its that Im flabbergasted that so many people ask and expect a serious answer beyond “How the fuck is that any of your business?” Or “Well you first, do you and your husband prefer anal or vaginal sex?”.
I mean, I knew about discrimination, and knew about the struggles of both finding and accepting yourself (but now that Im experiencing it feel I may owe you an apology for underestimating that one too) , and of course the danger of not being accepted, being attacked or even killed~~ all huge things that as an ally I was aware of and tried to learn more about,
I am sorry that I never acknowledged, and may have attributed to your social woes.
Goddamn people are invasive and rude.