Category: trans

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My apologies LGBT+ community

I formally apologize to everyone in the LGBT+ community as someone who was raised outside of it(but quite close to it) and didnt believe that you actually experienced shit like super invasive questions about your relationships.

Im sorry that these real problems are used as comedic moments on tv and therefore portrayed as fictional.

Like if one more person finds out my boyfriend is trans or realize who Im with and immediately turns around to say “but how does sex work” I might stab them, and Im someone who has no problem talking about my sex life with strangers.

That’s how often this happens, that me, someone with absolutely no boundaries has been made uncomfortable by it.

Its not that Im uncomfortable with answering, its that Im flabbergasted that so many people ask and expect a serious answer beyond “How the fuck is that any of your business?” Or “Well you first, do you and your husband prefer anal or vaginal sex?”.

I mean, I knew about discrimination, and knew about the struggles of both finding and accepting yourself (but now that Im experiencing it feel I may owe you an apology for underestimating that one too) , and of course the danger of not being accepted, being attacked or even killed~~ all huge things that as an ally I was aware of and tried to learn more about,

I am sorry that I never acknowledged, and may have attributed to your social woes.

Goddamn people are invasive and rude.

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My apologies LGBT+ community

I formally apologize to everyone in the LGBT+ community as someone who was raised outside of it(but quite close to it) and didnt believe that you actually experienced shit like super invasive questions about your relationships.

Im sorry that these real problems are used as comedic moments on tv and therefore portrayed as fictional.

Like if one more person finds out my boyfriend is trans or realize who Im with and immediately turns around to say “but how does sex work” I might stab them, and Im someone who has no problem talking about my sex life with strangers.

That’s how often this happens, that me, someone with absolutely no boundaries has been made uncomfortable by it.

Its not that Im uncomfortable with answering, its that Im flabbergasted that so many people ask and expect a serious answer beyond “How the fuck is that any of your business?” Or “Well you first, do you and your husband prefer anal or vaginal sex?”.

I mean, I knew about discrimination, and knew about the struggles of both finding and accepting yourself (but now that Im experiencing it feel I may owe you an apology for underestimating that one too) , and of course the danger of not being accepted, being attacked or even killed~~ all huge things that as an ally I was aware of and tried to learn more about,

I am sorry that I never acknowledged, and may have attributed to your social woes.

Goddamn people are invasive and rude.

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If youre not AMPED about MA the way I am, we cant be friends.

“State becomes first in U.S. history to successfully defend transgender rights by popular vote”

MOURN THE DEAD, FIGHT LIKE HELL FOR THE LIVING…

MOURN THE DEAD, FIGHT LIKE HELL FOR THE LIVING…

VOTE. VOTE. VOTE. VOTE. VOTE. VOTE.

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If people choose not to call you by your prefered name

Cut them out.

Plain and simple.

I dont care if youre trans and changing your name, or if you just dont like your name, or your old nickname, or you want a new nickname. It doesnt matter the reason.

If you said “hey, Id like to be called this” and they say “thats too hard” then they are choosing to disrespect you.

They dont care about you. Not enough. Not in the right ways.

Convience is not a reason to disrespect someone. If you respect them then slightly inconviencing yourself by learning their preferred name wont be much of a hassle.

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Dear… Everyone.

Dear lesbians who have hit on me, Im flattered. Imma tell you I’m into men pretty quick because I dont want to waste your time, NOT because im in anyway upset about you flirting. Please dont feel negative shit when I inform you, we’re chill, nothing negative happened!!!

Dear staight dudes who assume I’m gay or trans(or anyone who does, but especially straight dudes because they seem to have the most issue when their assumptions are wrong), we got no hard feelings. I have no shame in being called “he” or a lesbian. You did not offend me. Im gonna tell you otherwise because thats my truth, but we’re chill.

Dear people who ask me if Im “sure” or tell me that “you know im actually gay” or deny that I can express myself in such masculine ways without being LGBT, youre a pain in my ass and need to reevaluate why you think you know better than someone else about who THEY are.

Dear bullys, I see you. Dont think I dont see you. Don’t think that because youre LGBT that you arent bullying me when you verbally attack me for “pretending to be gay” or “trying to be special. Don’t think that because you’re straight you know what straight looks like/how its supposed to be. Dont think that because I make you uncomfortable that makes it okay to attack me. Why do I make you uncomfortable?

Dear homophobes, if you attacked me because you "thought” I was gay or trans, you still attacked me. You dont get a pass because you were wrong about my identity. Im not gonna be like “oh shit, you MEANT to attack an LGBT person? Well were cool”. Your homophobia alone makes me dislike you. You need to reevaluate and fix yourself… Or just fall into a deep hole. Whichever it takes.

Dear people who deny that this shit happens, you make dealing with it even harder. My issues with the ways that being gnc effects my social moments are not “just internalized homophobia”. My issues are with my identity being ignored, denied, and twisted and being verbally attacked and threatened for existing.

Dear other cishet gnc people, the opposite sex not being attracted to you is not oppression. The glimpses of homophobia you get treated to does NOT make you entitled to LGBT peoples narratives. You can talk about your issues without stopping others from talking about theirs or comparing them! Please do not create more hate/issues for me to deal with.

Dear everyone,

I am female, I like men, I look masculine(and love it). I exist. No hard feelings?

doodlepede:I love this. credit to Cynderthedr…

doodlepede:

I love this.
credit to Cynderthedragon5768 on DeviantArt.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 im dead

This is soooo innaccurate.

“Women have two eggs” – no, biologically a majority of females have two ovaries and are born with about 1 million eggs, that dies down to about 300000 by puberty.

As for chromosomes there are xx, xy, xo, xxx, xxy, xxyy, and MORE.

“A man will still be born with a fully functional penis and testicles. A women will still be born with a fully functional vagina” A female born with xo often doesnt develop breasts or functioning reproductive organs. Many females and males produce differing levels of testosterone and estrogen. Including males who have testosterone intolerances and females who have estrogen intolerances. This means many females and many males dont develop the sex characteristics often associated with their sex.

And ALL of that ignores the main fact, which is sex and gender are NOT synonymous. As agreed by most scientific fields, including biology, psychology, and sociology.

Thanks. Come again!

Today we honor all who gave their lives for fr…

Today we honor all who gave their lives for freedom and safety, all who served and never came home.
And heres a specific acknowledgment of those who gave their lives while their existence was ignored, denied, or questioned.

In honor of all LGBT+ individuals who served and gave all.

Morehead Pride ! 💛💙💜💚❤🌈

Morehead Pride ! 💛💙💜💚❤🌈

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mstar1960:

thehappyatheist:

stolt-och-snark:

thehappyatheist:

stolt-och-snark:

@thehappyatheist

Why do you have “hypocrisy” in the tags?

Well, you want to protect trans kids who are going through tough shit, and then you shit on trans kids when they disagree with you by saying that transsexuality is a medical condition that not only would negatively affect military performance, but also severely inhibits ones ability to live a normal life.

I’m not shitting on anyone, if anything it’s you who’s doing the shitting. Your mindset, that “trans people wouldn’t cut it” is the exact same mindset that kept women out of the armed forces for so long.

Healthy women don’t require surgery or hormone replacement therapy in order to serve a successful term in the armed forces. Nuff said.

Its amazing, modern medicine can make a woman into a man, or a man into a woman, but it can’t turn a transphobe into a non-transphobe.